What to Expect

Individual

One-on-one coaching tailored to your personal growth and challenges.

Couples

Sessions designed to strengthen connection and improve communication.

Flexible packages include individual and couple options with clear pricing.

Speaking

Our Services

One-on-one & Couples Coaching utilizing the Enneagram; Keynote/Conference Speaking and Workshops

Couple Coaching with the Enneagram

Couples coaching uses the Enneagram to improve communication, reduce recurring conflict, and rebuild connection. Partners learn each other’s needs, triggers, and “conflict cycle,” then practice healthier ways to respond with empathy, clarity, and teamwork. Great for dating, engaged, married, blended families, and couples navigating transition or stress.

Public Speaking & Trainings

Wilkie Life Coaching & Consulting, LLC offers high-impact keynote and public speaking engagements that blend practical psychology, leadership development, and faith-friendly encouragement when appropriate for the audience. Presentations are fully customizable and designed for healthcare organizations, leadership teams, conferences, churches, nonprofits, and community groups. In addition, interactive trainings and workshops are available for individuals, teams, and organizations, ranging from concise 60-minute introductions to half-day or full-day immersive sessions, offered both in person and virtually.

Popular training topics include a foundational introduction to the Enneagram that provides a clear and engaging overview of the nine types and how to use the tool responsibly; the Enneagram in the workplace, focusing on leadership styles, communication, conflict management, team dynamics, motivation, and burnout prevention; and the Enneagram and relationships, which explores connection patterns, attachment triggers, conflict resolution, and empathy-building by type. Additional offerings include the Enneagram and grief, examining how each type experiences loss and processes emotions while identifying healthy coping strategies; the Enneagram and addiction/recovery, an educational training that explores type-based coping mechanisms, avoidance patterns, and shame cycles; and Enneagram-based trainings for referral growth and revenue, equipping leaders and business development teams to use personality-informed communication to build trust, strengthen follow-up, deepen relationships, and increase referrals without relying on sales-driven tactics.

Individual Coaching with the Enneagram

One-on-one coaching helps clients identify their Enneagram type, understand core motivations and stress patterns, and turn insight into real-life change. Sessions focus on emotional regulation, communication, confidence, boundaries, leadership growth, and aligned decision-making—using practical tools you can apply immediately.

FAQs

What to expect for first Individual Session?

Your first individual session is designed to create clarity, safety, and direction. We begin by discussing your goals, current challenges, and what prompted you to pursue coaching. You’ll explore your Enneagram type (or refine it if you already know it), focusing on core motivations, fears, stress and growth patterns, and how these show up in your work, relationships, and daily life. The session is conversational and practical—not clinical—ending with clear insights, reflection questions, and simple tools you can begin using immediately. The goal is for you to leave feeling understood, hopeful, and equipped with a personalized growth focus for the weeks ahead.

It is important to note that although it may feel similar coaching is not psychotherapy and should not replace it.

Are couples sessions available and what is the first session like?

The first couples session focuses on building shared understanding and emotional safety. Together, we clarify each partner’s Enneagram type, communication style, and core needs, while identifying common conflict patterns and triggers. Rather than assigning blame, the session helps couples see how their differences interact and why misunderstandings occur. You’ll learn language to talk about conflict more productively, gain insight into each other’s stress responses, and practice small shifts that promote connection and empathy. Couples leave the first session with greater clarity, renewed compassion, and practical tools to strengthen communication between sessions.

What are the pricing options?

Individual and couple packages are offered, plus hourly rates and free consultations for flexibility.

1. Introductory Package – "Discover Your Enneagram"

Duration: 2 weeks
Sessions: 2 Zoom sessions (1 hour each)
Support: Email and text support between sessions

Details:
This package introduces couples to the Enneagram, helping them understand their types and how these influence their relationship dynamics. It's perfect for couples who want a brief introduction to how the Enneagram can improve communication and deepen their connection.

2. Growth & Connection Package – "Building Deeper Understanding"

Duration: 6 weeks
Sessions: 6 Zoom sessions (1 hour each)
Support: Weekly email summaries, text support between sessions, 1 phone check-in (30 minutes)

Details:
This package goes deeper into understanding each partner's Enneagram type and how to use that awareness to foster better communication and intimacy. Each week focuses on practical applications of Enneagram knowledge in the relationship, including conflict resolution and emotional support.

3. Transformation Package – "Enhancing Your Relationship"

Duration: 3 months
Sessions: 12 Zoom sessions (1 hour each)
Support: Weekly email summaries, unlimited text support, 2 phone check-ins (30 minutes each)

Details:
This comprehensive package is designed for couples who want to make lasting changes in their relationship. It includes deep dives into each individual’s growth edges and how those relate to their partner's needs. Focus will be placed on creating lasting strategies for managing differences, improving emotional intimacy, and leveraging the Enneagram for personal and relational growth.

4. VIP Premium Package – "Enneagram Mastery for Couples"

Duration: 6 months
Sessions: 24 Zoom sessions (1 hour each)
Support: Unlimited email and text support, weekly phone check-ins (30 minutes each), personalized growth exercises

Details:
The most comprehensive package designed for couples who are committed to deep and long-term relationship transformation. You’ll receive tailored support based on your specific challenges and goals, integrating the Enneagram with other coaching tools to achieve profound relationship growth. This package includes ongoing communication and feedback to ensure that the Enneagram continues to guide the couple throughout their journey.

Do you speak at events?

Absolutely!
Popular Training Topics Include:

• Enneagram Introduction (Foundations): a clear, engaging overview of the 9 types and how to use the tool responsibly

• Enneagram & the Workplace: leadership styles, communication, conflict, team dynamics, motivation, and burnout prevention

• Enneagram & Relationships: connection patterns, attachment triggers, conflict resolution, and empathy-building by type

• Enneagram & Grief: how each type experiences loss, processes emotions, and needs support—plus healthy coping strategies

• Enneagram & Addiction/Recovery: understanding type-based coping mechanisms, avoidance patterns, shame cycles, and healthier pathways for growth (training/educational—not clinical treatment)

• Enneagram for Referral Growth & Revenue: a practical training for leaders and business development teams on using personality-informed communication to strengthen trust, improve follow-up, deepen relationships, and increase referrals without “salesy” tactics

Is a free consultation offered?

Absolutely, free consultations help you decide what fits best for you. Free Consultations lasting 30 mins are available for organizations and individuals.

The first session felt like a fresh start—clear, supportive, and truly personalized.

J.S.

Couples coaching helped us reconnect and communicate in ways we hadn’t before.

M & L

★★★★★

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